Men

[parsley]

A little book research. Will you help me?

You go to a meeting. You arrive early. You are the welcoming person at the door and you are able to watch people walk along a long aisle to come in.

What's the VERY first thing you notice, or make note of, about a MAN when he is walking towards you or when you greet him at the door, face to face?
Thanks. Pars.

[wilagro]

A toughie...but probably a look of detachment as he looks to see how big the crowd is in the hall.

[parsley]

Height (I'm a huge mean Scandanavian)
Eyes

[chaffmeister]

air of assurance or confidence (or lack thereof)

[wade]

If the greeter is a man or a woman?

[parsley]

You are the greeter

[furrowtickler]

I would say the facial expression.

[parsley]

Men don't notice other men's handshake? Or hair? What, the farm community suffers from mass macular degeneration?

[farm_boy]

Couldn't see his hair under his JD hat, and handshake wouldn't be the first thing to notice.

Gait - Confidence - Demeanour - Gaze

[TOM4CWB]

Parsley,

Most men say what they mean... unless they are politicians... then we have a special place for them in our mind!

If a Politician is in a place of real power... then Plan A... learn what you can... and help where the opportunity presents.

If a person without much influence... learn what you can... find out what makes them tick.

People are interesting... motivated by something... finding out what motivates them... tells scores about why they are who they are!

Principal based... usually farmers...

Situation Based... usually politicians!